Tales from the HoneyComb

Time: Around 2005

So I had been seeing VI man for a minute, he was getting to the point where he wanted to spend more time with me and I was beginning to be annoyed by him.

We had spoken earlier on the phone about him coming over and I told him that I didn’t know if I was going to be around but to call me first and we could go from there.

I go on about my day…you know work and all that. Come home to chill and was soo tired that I got into bed. Now at the time I was living in Alexandria with the twins we had a nice size spot and it was pretty comfortable.

Anywho I really didn’t wanna see VI man cause I tend to leave folks alone after I realize that you’re pretty much a waste of time…as normal folks do. But he was like really annoying, he didn’t have a car so I would have to go pick him up or go to his house which wasn’t annoying at first but I got tired of doing that. He was always going to NY for whatever reason then trying to make it seem like I was the one that didn’t have time for him, of course now I wish he were a drug dealer then maybe he would have had some sort of excuse for being strange…anywho.

So anywho I’m in my room and I hear this knock at my window and I’m like what the piss….I dont wanna look out the window so I kinda do a peek and I see VI man throwing rocks at my window..I’m like what the F&^%!!!

I get back in bed cause I’m like you know what I dont wanna see you maybe he’ll go home. NOOO such luck. This fool threw more rocks and even said I see you open the door…WOW homie. Then I hear a knock at the door and I dont open it cause I know its him. He then proceeds to use the neighbors phone (I found this out after) to call me cause he didnt have a working cell phone (a whole other issue) finally I let him in..why you ask I’m not sure LOL

So he comes in and is like didn’t you hear me and i’m like what….then he says I saw you I was liek whatever dude I was sleep how come you just didn’t call me to say you were on the way and all of that would not have occurred…WOW

I go to bed and fall asleep…I wake up to him apparently talking in his sleep calling me selfish and what not..I’m like yo homie is crazy. In the morning we get dressed for work all the while he’s telling me he wants to be serious, take me to meet his fam in the islands (and I would have jumped on that if he wasn’t crazy lol) and I’m like I’m good right now I think we work better as friends……he’s like well I want us to be serious….lord bejesus did he hear what I said

We head to the bus and that’s when I notice that his shoes are clearly FALLIN apart..I’m like wow this man got on this nice suit and busted shoes..wha da hell?!

Needlesstosay he tried to come visit me when I lived with Hun and he was living with some chic…too weird

Maybe it was because we were both Libras…but he was tooo strange for me…

Great…too bad, sorry to see him go but I didn’t need the extra drama


Tippin the Scales

So either my scale loves me to death or its lying to me by telling me that I have neither lost nor gained any weight since last week. Great…then again I could get on it next week and I could be 5 pds lighter lol

This week was ok I didn’t make it to the gym at all due to class and having to work late (since I’m out all next week of course everyone wants me to finish their work by COB friday…great)

I have been drinking more water but ever since I started grocery shopping for myself after I graduated its a lot easier to not buy soda lol…now juice I love but I’ve told myself that its way better than soda so great.

Since next week is the holiday I’ve told myself that I’m going to exercise everyday in some shape or form just so I dont get out of my mojo and wont overeat…especially when it comes to that peach cobbler emmmmm. On top of that tomorrow night we have my chapters anniversay dinner and my sorors can throw down so I have to remember to step away from the table lol and the wine 🙂

So still at 193….trying to not move anymore in the upward direction….

TMI Tuesday

Ehhh the question’s aren’t that great this week but oh well maybe I can find additional ones:

1. When did you last use your cellular telephone as a flashlight?
The other night while digging through my shoe bin lol

2. On a scale from 1-10, how comfy are you being naked?
Rather comfy as soon as I walk into the house I start to take my clothes off unless someone is with me lol

3. What is the longest you’ve ever been celibate after having lost your virginity? a year

4. Have you ever had sex in a car? If yes, since you were a teenager?
No I wasn’t a teenager

5. When did you last use food or drink as medication?
Umm food always makes me feel better and so does strawberry soda (which I dont drink alot) and caramel frap from crackbuck lol

Bonus: Name three words that:
a) get you excited My nephews
b) make you squirm downtown action lol
c) make you laugh my nephews

Here is another set:

1. Who and when was your first crush? This boy in fifth grade named Paul he was SOOOO cute. Tall and slim with pretty hair and nice eyebrows..too bad Paul grew up to be somewhat of a thug and now has bullet wounds on a once nice bird chest

2. Who and when was your first date? Hmm now that I think about it, it wasn’t until college when I started dating Z and we went to dinner and the movies

3. Who and when was your first kiss? First kiss was D…we’ve known each other since we were like 4 and dated off and on till my freshmen year of college…I would have to say that our first kiss was in the back of a bus while we were on a church trip lol

4. Who and when was your first partner while “fooling around” in car? Issac..I was sweet on him for a second that nice chocolate man….ahh well

5. Who and when was your first partner while “fooling around” in a house? D LOL we tried billions of times for him to “take the draws” as he would call it..to no avail..until I had graduated from college lol

6. Who and when was your first love? My first love was Z. I cried and ached over him for a while…I always thought D was but after Z I didnt honestly think I could love again.

Bonus: Who’s blog did you first comment on? Serial Dater..I wonder where he is now

Tales from the Honeycomb

Time period: Somewhere around 2005 I think

He’s cute. I love his accent..where are you from….the Virgin Island’s hmmmm nice.

Aight I’ll come over for dinner but dont be feeding me no dang on weird island food or trying to put a curse on me lol

Gotta shower, put the smell good on and get all coordinated looking. Hop in the blueberry (my car she’s blue so I call her that or babygirl)…head out to DC. At this point and time I wasn’t too familiar with DC but I could do aight with finding my way….found his apt and am like what the heck am I getting myself into is this the ghetto (said in my best I’ve never seen a ghetto voice lol).

Hope out the car..wishing I had one of the bop bop things for her (so at least I could give off that she was untouchable) walk into the building and am wondering if this is gonna be some bullish

Oh aight he hasn’t morphed between a few days ago and now….emmm I love how he says my name with that island twang…..and he’s short but dang look at those arms…aight I’m hungry where’s my plate at. Hmm he can actually cook, wow nice…nice conversation. Why do I attract men with kids lol what do I look like super mom I mean yea I want kids but maybe not yours hahaha

Emm he has nice lips….maybe I can see this going somewhere.

Later down the line….why does this fool have on shoes that are talking (meaning the sole is seperated from the shoe), why is he driving some other persons car, he actin kinda weird

Too bad eventually he turns into a insane stalker type LOL (more on that later)

Tippin the Scales

Woman exercising with dumbbell.Well I’ve been meaning to do this for a while but I’m horrible when it comes to me discussing my weight however if I address it (meaning I can’t lie to myself when I see it written down) then maybe I’ll stick with this a lil longer.

My blog/friend sista BK does this thing called Tippin the Scales…I was suppose to start it but I couldn’t bring myself to address me being ummm a member of Team Chunky lol (now dont get me wrong I love the chunk but in moderation)…so as of today I will be addressing my weight issues here on thursdays…so feel free to offer advice, share tips that might have worked for you and all that..but dont be trying to tell me to starve myself…a sista likes to eat lol (not over eat just eat lol)

Well me and one of my girls have decided that we are going to start going to PG Sports and Learning Complex which is down the street from my house and like 5 min from hers. We got a tour on Monday and decided to take it easy the first day. We didnt’ stretch we just hopped on the treadmill. Well lets just say the next day I was hurting well not too bad but my body was like girl what the heck are you doing to me…I was like getting you back in shape cottage cheese thighs LOL (a lil might be aight but not 2 cups full lol). Man I was on the treadmill in front of the mirror like man do i really look this bad..no but you could do better and that’s what we’re doing.

Yesterday we went and did 45 min…..20 something on the treadmill and then the rest on the precor….man I love the precor that will be my first machine from now on and the treadmill will be my warmup. I think I’m gonna try to do weights a portion of the third day that I go just to tone up the arms and what not.

Of course we were looking at the eye candy which was rather nice but there were also some men in there who were old enough to be my dad talking about where you working at upstairs or downstairs…umm boo what’s it to you looking like a bull dog WOW…get outta here on top of that you mean work out cause I sure as hell dont work here cause I wouldnt’ have this extra cottage cheese on my thighs if I did work here…great.

So I’m gonna try very very hard to stay on track this time….I was doing so good before almost down to 180 then I got lazy. I’m gonna start off small and do monthly goals. So this months goal (from today to dec 13th) will be go to the gym three times a week. I already dont drink soda so that’s been easy and I dont do beef too much. I’m a fish, chicken and turkey girl. On top of that I will be cooking more….which I do but I could do better.

How are you doing on reaching your personal health goals?

Starting weight: 193 (personally I dont think i look like I weight this much till I take off my clothes hahahaha)

End of December Goal: 185

Open Letter

I’m not sure how to begin but it seems like its much easier to get my words out when I write them down. You know I tend to talk fast and that causes me to sometimes get mixed up, so I decided to take the time to write how I feel.

The time we’ve spent together is always amazing to me. I can’t lie to myself and say that I dont love you. I realize this each time I see you smile, each time I hear you say my name, each time you hug me.

I know that sometimes things aren’t the best in life but you make each day that much more liveable for me and for that I thank you. I’m sure you dont know just how special you are to me then again you might but of course me telling you doesn’t harm it.

She doesn’t appreciate what a wonderful man you are. How she should be envious of how much you want to be in your child’s life…she’s missing out on having a wonderful man be a partner in raising her child. She apparently hasn’t gotten over whatever occurred between the two of you and that’s not your fault. God has to work on her and only time can stop her from being such a butt head lol

I just want you to know that I love you and I’m here for you. You’re not only one of my best friends, you are a wonderful man who has wonderful qualities. The people that love you know how special you are so she’s missing out…she missed out and look what I got 🙂


TMI Tuesday

I haven’t done this in a while and I’ve always like them so lets see if I can keep up with them this time 🙂

1. Ever been skinny dipping? Unless you call bathing that…no

2. How often do you kiss or make out without it simply being a foreplay activity? Actually I love to kiss depends on the person but I actually prefer this at times….

3. On a scale of 1-10, how content are you with your life? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) Do you think ‘content’ and ‘happy’ the same thing? I’d say about an 8…only cause I have wayy more things that I wanna do and accomplish but all in all I’m happy

4. What do you do to relieve stress? I actually watch one of my favorite movies or crochet (R says I’m an old lady)

5. What was the special trait in your first lover that made you decide that they were “the one?” Hmmmm his conversation was very good and he was very attentive all in all my first time was one that some of my friends envied since their first time wasnt all that great

Bonus: How old were you when you first had sex? (positive experiences here…) I was 19 about to go home for Christmas break…I had met him about 3 weeks earlier and lets just say I went home a happy camper LOL. It was great and honestly I wouldn’t trade it for the world.