Tuesday Posts

Inerview Questions from Organized πŸ™‚

1. I’m a fan of your “Tales From The Honeycomb” posts. What makes you so comfortable discussing your sex life on your blog? For so long I was embarassed about being me, not comfortable with my body feeling like I wasnt as pretty as some of my girls but then one day something clicked and even though I still feel a lil shy at times or not my best…I’m WAY more comfortable in my skin…plus we’re all adults and what I say might hurt or hinder someone..plus sometimes the tales from the honeycomb ones are about ridiculous men and not sex LOL

2. Who is the best blogger you’ve met? Hmmm honestly I dont know…all of them are pretty cool and I converse with them from time to time…but if I had to say that I’ve hung out with one more than the other it would be BK…she’s kinda like my big sis now πŸ™‚

3. If you were told that you already knew the person you were ultimately going to marry, who would you want it to be and why? I would prob ask is it a combination of two or does it have to be just one LOL sike hmmmm I think I’ve thought about this question alot lately maybe cause its Wedding Season all over the world but I would have to say I dont know honestly…..I can assume all I want but maybe I dont know who he is or havent recognized who he is because I’m honestly not ready myself…but if I were ready I prob still wouldnt’ know who I’d want it to be…as you can see I tend to over analyze

4. Why did you decide to pledge? I was going to do it in college but I was involved inthe choir and other various on campus activities and for so long I heard horror stories, finally I just decided to investigate and see what everything was all about and I realized how much my Sorors do for the community and how great they are in their own lives….I love being apart of something and adding to the org and my community

5. When was the last time you had a “bad girl moment” and what exactly did you do? A couple of weeks ago, a friend and I have been going back and forth…we’ve known each other for like 3 years and have been out on one date….but we talk every single day on IM and I mean every single day lol so we decided to call one another’s bluff and lets just say we weren’t disappointed LOL

1. What was the last movie you saw in a theater? Seven Pounds with the fam on Christmas

2. What is your favorite movie theater snack? Before braces whoopers or milk dudes after braces I have decided that I will bring my own food which will consist of puffin corn lol

3. Have you ever snuck in ‘outside’ food into a theater? Heck yea and drinks lol

4. Have you ever made out in a theater? Yep I have

5. What is the ‘farthest’ you have gone in a theater? Gave someone a lil action I aint going no further than that…go home for that aint tryin to get arrested for no one lol

Bonus (as in optional): What is one of your favorite movie sex scene? The scene in Jason’s Lyric when they were outside…I’ve wanted to name my daughter Lyric since I saw that lol

1. Have you ever dated/married purely for money? No if I can’t stand you money aint gonna change that

2. What is your type? Dont have one my dad will tell ya LOL other than they are smaller than me (other than hun)

3. What is the best sex game you have ever played? Strip Uno LOL

4. Have you ever given or received an orgasm from a person whose last name you did not know? Yep I only recall his name being Leon Hahahah

5. Have you ever masturbated in front of a sexual partner? Yep

Bonus (as in optional):At what age do you think men and women reach their sexual peak? Do you think you have hit yours yet? I dont know about the age and no I dont think I’ve reached mine I wanna be one of those old ladies who still looks fierce and will make a young man wanna call me mommie when I’m old πŸ™‚

Wedding Season

So with the onset of summer and growing up comes the season of weddings and babies. My best friend has two (Livy and Gavin) I love them both as if they were my own and even though I’ve been declared as Livy’s God mommie Gavin is mine as well….my sis has three boys and I love them more than life itself….my close friend from college has a lil girl and Baby Red (her real name is carolyn) is the cutest thing I have ever seen with her gray eyes….my buddy is getting married in Aug and I’m soo happy for her…my LS is getting married in March if all goes well (reason for the post) and one of my homies from home is gettin married in Aug as well.

So as you can see this year is like a sort of awakening for me. Finally realizing that life is ever changing around me and…dare I say we’re growing up.

But with all the weddings and babies around me I wonder do folks really know how serious all that is. For example my LS who is getting married in March is SOOOO blinded by the fact that she has paid for stuff already that she can’t see that she prob shouldn’t get married. I mean who wants to marry someone where you tell them that you dont want to talk to them for the whole weekend then you stay away just so you dont have to deal with them….then you’re out shopping and want to buy something for them after you’ve stated you dont care if you get married….can we say strange…I was like girl dont talk to my about it no more cause you dont wanna hear what I gotta say. I aint perfect but I aint marrying someone who I fight with every other day….not my cup of tea

Baby Red’s mom lives with her baby daddy and can’t see that he doesn’t do anything for his child. I shouldn’t have to ask you to watch your own child on your day off….I shouldn’t have to wait for you to come home on your day off when you should be home at 6am no less….I shouldn’t have to ask others to buy your child diapers when you clearly have a job….just because others are getting married doesn’t mean you should put up a front that you guys are as well…if he aint done it now after 3 years and a baby chances are he might not…old dogs do change though so we’ll see

My buddy who is getting married is soooo happy and glowing..she found the dress this weekend and I’m sooo happy that I was there to see it on her πŸ™‚ I’m happy for her and the hubby they have been through alot and gotten better for it…I see the life that God is blessing them with and they inspire me πŸ™‚

My bestie with her 2 kids is the bomb….she is doing it on her own and she’s matured so much that those who didn’t believe in her are not amazed that she is doing it and doing it well….my god children are loved and well taken care of and she lets their fathers be a part of their lives and doesn’t talk trash just because they aren’t together.

I pray that when God decides I’m ready for a husband that I realize the blessing and open myself up to it. That I realize what a blessing it is to find someone that I can spend my life with, who I can grow old with, who I can raise my children with, who I can change the world with….

I know he’s out there πŸ™‚ Maybe he’s already here and I just dont know it…..but I pray that when the time is right we realize what a blessing we have in one another πŸ™‚

Interview

Aight so I sent an email to Moni (Known on the side as Insatiable one..but I’m gonna call her Moni unless she tells me to stop lol) so I could take part in this interview tag…so here goes..feel free to particiapte I like these kinds of things πŸ™‚

1. If you want to participate, leave me a comment saying, β€œInterview me.” (And your e-mail address, please.)
2. I will respond by emailing you five questions. I get to pick the questions.
3. You will update your blog with the answers to the questions.
4. You will include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.
5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.

Here are the questions:

1. Name one thing is always on your mind. Dying without having children

2. Who was the last person to make you cry and why? R, he frustrates me so that sometimes I bust out in tears not very often in front of him…you ever love someone and they just say some bullish..yea that’s him sometimes

3. You’re stranded on a deserted island for 3 months, what 3 people would you want there with you and what 3 things would you pack? my bestie….we would def entertain one another, my mommie I’d miss her too much lol plus she would say she needs the vacation and a member of the crew (they’ve been my girls since freshmen year not talking to either one of them for three months would kill me), I would def take my toothbrush cause I can’t STAND hot breath lol, a BIBLE cause I def need to get closer to God and wouldnt’ that be the perfect time and a radio or something to play music I dont like silence for too long

4. Where were you when 9/11 occured? I was in class sophmore year in my pjs, my prof let us out early and I tried calling my mommie cause campus is like 20 min from the pentagon and I was sooo scared they were gonna bomb fairfax

5. Have you ever called someone on the phone, and just as they answered, you realize you forgot who you are calling? YES lol I did this to R and was like hey sweetie but was trying to call someone else but good thing I could play it off

Mid Week Attack

Ok so being back to work after having Mon and Tues off is not what’s poppin’

I miss you terribly….oops did I just say that

Awww you called me two days in a row….7 more days till you come home!!

I can’t believe my baby sis is 25…you are the bomb lady and I know you’re only going to get better with age

Mini sis is still acting like she aint got the sense God gave her..calling the po-po on folks what is that about..boo he can’t arrest folks for saying this and that and this and that (yes that’s what she said lol)

DC was off the hook this past week!!! Sad to see it back to normal…and to have to get back to work

Boo just cause I had a crush on you when I was a freshmen doesn’t mean that I have one now…we’ll see

Ummmmmm NO lol

Myspace is the devil and it will get ya everytime lol

I’m looking forward to the year πŸ™‚

I’m ready for the weekend

Great just great

TMI Tuesday

I was gonna post some other stuff but I’ll do this and post other mindless wanderings tomorrow lol

1. On a scale of 1-10, how satisfied are you with your sex life?
I’d say about a 8 cause there is always room for improvement lol

2. If someone shoves you up against a wall while kissing you, your reaction is? Well if its someone I want to do that it turns me on and I get all into it, now if its someone that disgusts me of course I’m gonna go for the family jewels and cause some damage

3. What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done or said to you? Someone calls me Sunshine and he says he calls me that cause whenever he’s down he thinks about me or talks to me and I brighten up his life lol..corny but I like it….most romantic thing done for me…G came over one day while he was in town and I was soo tired I even think I fell asleep on the couch, he wakes me up and leads me to the bathroom and there is a bath waiting with candles and music…lets just say I was really knocked out after that lol

4. Where is the most unusual place you have ever had sex? At a club in the reggae room, when I told someone that they were like dang you dont look the type lol…I know that’s how I like it πŸ™‚

5. How do you liked to be kissed? I like to be kissed realllllll nice and slow like that’s the last time you’ll ever see me or as if I have something really tasty on my lips and you are trying to get it all off πŸ™‚

Bonus (as in optional):Most embarrassing sexual moment? You know how your private area farts…a quif or however you spell it LOL that makes me like oh goodness every time hahahahah

1. Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you dislike/don’t get along with?
Well it depends on how much I dont like this person like if it was a guy and I hated him but he was fine that’s ok cause we can have a baby then I’d have someone to talk to lol, if its a chic we might bond but all in all I wouldn’t want to be alone..too quiet and I dont want to talk to myself or inanimate objects like Tom Hanks

2. Would you rather accidentally walk in on your parents having sex or have them walk in on you? Ummm eww to both of that lol neither

3. Would you rather be snapped by paparazzi during a nipple slip or while exiting a car with out any underwear? (guys, consider similar circumstances) Nipple slip def cause showing the chocha is not HOT lol

4. Would you rather not have sex for two years or not be able to use the Internet for two years? I went without sex till I was a soph in college so I could do it again I dont need it to live lol

5. Would you rather find true love or 1 million dollars? Well in this time of recession I’m gonna say the money, I can buy someone to tell me they love me LOL or get implanted with a egg and have a baby lol so technically I can have both

Bonus (as in optional): If you had to choose *one* sexual position for the rest of your life, what would it be? Why? The back….just something about it maybe cause I’m blessed with a nice donk lol

1. Last week was “The Most Wonderful time of the Year”, but what are your favorite 2008 memories? When I was at the birth of my nephew Ja’lyn…I was the first to hold him cause my sis was out of it, and it was SOOOO amazing

2. What is the best thing you learned in 2008? The a real relationship takes work and sacrifice some folks dont get that

3. On a scale of 1-10, how good was your 2008? It was a 8 cause it could have been better but it was as good as I needed it to be to learn what I needed to learn πŸ™‚

4. What is your wish for 2009? What is your wish for someone else for 2009? I wish for enough πŸ™‚ and the same for others

5. Where was the first place you ever passionately kissed? At the house on New Years Eve

Bonus (as in optional):Do you make New Year’s resolutions? What is/are your’s for 2009? Ehhh sometimes I do, this year I’m gonna do better with my mental, spiritual and financial growth

I dont WANT IT!

Aight so ever since maybe the last week of December I’ve been trying to inform an ex of mine (Red to be exact) that I dont want him, dont ever want him and if he wants to continue to get this semi friendly treatment then he needs to stop actin like he’s the worlds gift to women and I was just born yesterday and I’m about to die tomorrow meaning I need the penis now and his is what I need.

Backstory: Red and I met when I was a freshmen in college on BP and we talked off and on (not really consistently) for about 2 years then junior year he comes to MD to visit fam and we decide to meet up. Now I was a lil youngin still and was like aight why not, TX man and a Kappa at that..hm hm hm. We hit it off and somewhere between that and my senior year we started dating. I dont exactly know what day or how it occurred I honestly know it just sorta happened one day…no one said aight we’re dating it just happened. He was there with me when I drove to visit my TOOT being born and he met the parents and all that, talked to the dad and we were making plans for me to find a job in TX so I could move out there. Between all that we had sex…maybe like 3 or 4 times that weekend I mean I know it wasn’t a marathon. But apparently he was blown by it cause he hit a jealous streak and when he left whenever he would call if he heard another dude in the background he would go ballistic.

Me and the girls were moving into our apt in Alexandria he heard a guy in the back (who was my dad) and was like you F’in around on me who is that..I was like wooohoo homie that’s my dad fall back. It turned from that to him telling me how to act and how he wanted me to have sex with him and other chics (and I dont mean a once in a life time thing he wanted this to occur everyday..heck NO). I was like oh no, then this fool wanted me to move to TX and move in with him and some chic like a concubine. Then at one last attempt to be a nice person I went to visit him in TX after not seeing him in over a year….we had broken up but I was like aight let me go visit and I got a free ticket. So I go down there we chill or whatever and I come back and why do I find out when I come back that he got some chic pregnant and didnt’ tell me but was trying to get back in with me…WHAT THE PISS!!!!

So I told him not to call me leave me alone and all that jazz. He did, I moved on and forgave him. I’ve moved on. But I dont know what happened cause all of a sudden he has been blowing me up talking about how he misses me and is sooo sorry about what he did to me. Boo I dont’ want you….you have gained weight and you are sooo below me right now and I’m not even trying to funny.

Take care of your kid, leave me alone. I’m your friend or I’m trying to be but stop calling talking about you’re horny and you thought of me…ewww. Dont send me texts in the morning talking about good morning you aint done that before why are you doing it now do you think that by doing this you’re going to slowly get me back into your life…NO. I have someone that calls me everyday and texts me everyday to tell me I’m beautiful and if I’m in doubt I can call my daddy..thanks.

I dont wanna be mean but DANG! I dont wanna change my number and I’m trying to be nice…but you just dont get it.