radio that is 🙂 At work just finished eating a bagel…after I already downed a french toast bagel this morning. What can I say the auntie flo got me eating like Im eating for two however I dont over do it too much cause I do know that she goes away and I dont want the pds that she brought to stay with her LOL

Today is my friday…which means I’m outtta here snitches come 530 or 6 depending on the workload. Gonna head out for drinks or something later with Wayne who you know as G but I’ve started to call him Wayne since his dads name is G as well its just easier to call him Wayne all the time instead of remembering to call him that when we’re around the fam…who I LOVE. He has 3 brothers. 2 are younger and the one is older so he falls in the same place child wise as I do. But anywho I was over the fams house yesterday and his lil brother who is 12 loves my storm lol he’s always on it like D can I see your phone…i want one but I’m too’re darn skippy homie. The other night me and Wayne were helpin him with his HW boy do I remember those days…..kinda miss em but they will be back soon I start school again in the summer lol so great. Should be done by December and on to bigger and better things.

Going to the 804 tomorrow to get my lil Toot…who is such the man now lol. When he spent the weekend at my house recently he goes auntie lay in my arms….and he rubs my head LOL. I love that lil dude. So after I pick him up I’m headed to the parents house for the rest of the weekend but before I chill I gotta take Wayne to the airport. He’s going to TX for a month. He says I wont miss him…I say of course I will…and I mean it lol. He’s slowly movin in on me..not like that lol no more movin in with said man until I get a ring LOL and I make sure he aint got no hidded issues…lesson learned I tell ya. Some folks can do it…I for one learned that I need more before I do that 🙂

Other than that…nothin much else goin on. Ready for the weather to get a lil nicer so I can wear my cute orange peep toe shoes, or the navy blue and pink open toe ones….I also saw these cute brown open toe ones at Charlotte Rouse that are a must get!!!! However I told Wayne that I would clean out my shoe closet first before I buy another pair….he laughed lol and so did I on the inside cause I know that might not happen.

On top of that so begins flip flop buying at OLD NAVY!!! WHOOOHOO sad but I can go in there and spend 30 dollars on flip flops cause you know they are two for 5 LOL. And the summer dresses ohh yea I gots to have one in every color..not from there but anywhere I can get one under $20. I need a yellow and an orange one. I have purple, black, green, blue and brown I need some brighter colors.

Thinking of going lighter for the summer as far as loc color but dont know gotta talk to my hair stylist dont want them bad boys to fall out 🙂

Have a great weekend…back to my slacker radio

P.S. why did I have a dream I was about to be eatin by zombies, then we ended up buying outfits and having a dance off but I woke up before I could find out who won…WOW talk about insanity!


TMI Questions

These help me clear my head 🙂

1. Don’t tell us what it is, but do you have a sexual secret you have never told anyone? Yes and if I told ya then it wouldn’t be a secret

2. Do you have a nonsexual secret you have never told anyone? Nah someone knows it so its not a secret.

3. Did you ever tell someone a secret only to have them spill it? What were the repercussions? Nope I have wonderful friends

4. Did you ever spill a secret someone told you? What were the repercussions? Yea she didn’t know I told I just found it bizarre what she told me, I had to tell someone lol

5. Tell us a secret someone told you, however along ago, that you’ve never told. (You can disguise name or details) I’ve told so I guess I can’t tell now lol

Thursday Mumbo Jumbo

At work ready to go home

So much stuff to do this weekend, chapter meeting sat morning, luncheon on sunday and between all that make sure the luncheon goes off well since I’m a chairperson…great

My Zetaversary is Sun woohooo 1 year ago I became a ZETA!!!!

Ummm if I dont return your IM”s and you left your number and I didn’t call dont you think that should tell you something especially if you keep asking for my new number and I have yet to give it to you

I dont know if I like Heather Headleys version of Running back to you I like commission better

I need to do my hair but I still have some curls from when I did this lil bantu thingy with the locs so I might wait till Sunday night matter fact I prob will wait till Sun night lol

You see I’m moving on now you wanna tell me you want a relationship…WOW are you kiddin me lol

I soo enjoyed our day in DC…..can’t wait to do it again 🙂

Sometimes I think I read too much into things…and I dont wanna mess up what could be a good thing if I do that

I try to stop but my poor brain just runs a mile a minute

I can’t wait for it to get nicer outside…my walk this weekend was wonderful

Sad when your fam says I briought you to church and not the other way around LOL

I need a vacation………where to go first LOL

TMI Tuesday

I will admit that I love doing these…just cause life can get so dang on tiring sometimes its nice to do something that doesn’t “mean” anything.

1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not? Yep I believe in marriage, for some people lol. I being one of them. I can’t wait to find the one that I’m meant for and create a life together producing wonderful big headed smart babies lol

2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position? Nah but dont challenge me cause I’m always up for the challenge lol

3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes? Hmm sometimes depends

4. Do you consider online cybering adultery? Uhhhh lol does that include texting lol

5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex? Heck no lol i needs the real thing

6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner? I mean if we’re both off that day then fine but I think I’m good in that dept lol

7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it? I think midly looking is fine but if you’re out and out falling over this person then there is a problem.

8. Do you think you’re flirty by nature? I’ve heard that I am but I am social and on top of that my friends know that I just dont talk to anyone

1. Is there a sexual act/position/practice that you were sure in advance you would hate (or never try) and then discovered to your surprise you loved? Doggystyle…I was like umm no why would I like that then what do you know I like it I just dont like to call it doggy style it annoys me

2. Is there a sexual act/position/practice that proved a lot less interesting in practice than you thought it would be beforehand? The side I guess if I had to pick one

3. How do you let your significant other know you’re in the mood? How do you let a new person in your life know? I let the SO know by doing things he likes, rubbing his hand, the back of his neck….I would hope the new person can pick up on signals…dont wanna have to stand in front of them naked for them to get the picture HAHA

4. How does your significant other let you know he/she is in the mood? He rubs my back and kisses my hands then moves in lol

5. Is there one that got away – a sexual opportunity you didn’t realise was one at the time, or weren’t ready for and regret missing ever since? Nah

Clearing my cluttered brain…

So you pretty much know the story with R..he’s someone I met like 5 years ago when I first graduated from college. He came up to my friend after I disappeared heading back to work and asked her to pass his number on to me when she saw me again. She called me at work, told and I called him. We met up outside my building and the rest is history lol.

He’s cool that’s my homie, I love him to death but lately things have been getting on my nerves. I know you can’t rush a relationship but my thing is boo if you dont know by now if I’m the type of person that you want to be with then why are you getting mad at me for hanging out with folks…you arent my man. Yea you may act like it and we might hang out alot but you aren’t him. Sad to say that titles change things but that’s the reality of it all.

So we’ve been having convos lately about what’s going on and he’s telling me that sometimes I dont make him feel comfortable enough cause he doesnt know what I’m doing and sometimes hwat I do doesn’t look right…for example Young One and I went out to dinner on friday. Now Young one has a girl and two kids, we are NOT trying to get together….we just like hanging out and talking about life. He’s doing something with himself and I like to surround myself with folks like that. It shows cause R was saying I dont have a physical type..which is true if you’re cute in your own way then you can get my number now what will keep me talking to you is what you’re about…he doesn’t get that but oh well. So anyway he was all upset cause he was like Sunshine how does that look to you, you going out to dinner and watchin a movie with him aint that couple shit…I’m like boo if that’s the case I’ve done couple shit with lots of folks that dont mean they gettin in my pants..WOW. I said he’s my friend and that’s it….he didnt spend the night or anything like that…WOW. Talking about I’m trying to feel comfortable enough to be this way with you but you’re not concerned about how things look…I’m like why should I be concerned with how things look to you, you’re not my man.

I told him I was tired of chasing this long list of crap he wants or thinks he needs me to do in order to be with him…I am not superwoman. On top of that he keeps saying its so easy for someone to take you away from me…I’m thinkin maybe cause you aint doing your job or making me feel secure which is why I continue to date other folks. What’s the point in dating someone if they dont ever see it moving forward..I dont see the point, I’m not in high school anymore…

he makes my head hurt lol