1. Do you have “your” side of the bed? Which side? Yea I like to sleep near the door or in the middle of the bed lol if babe is there I’m usually almost on the floor.

2. How old is your pillow and what condition is it in? I’ve had my body pillow since college its comfy but I have other pillows that I sleep on

3. What is your favorite position to sleep in? On my stomach

4. How often do you change your sheets? Every other week

5. What helps you fall asleep when insomnia strikes? Watching something boring on TV

6. Does sex make you sleepy or energized? Depends on what kind of sex lol

7. What is the minimum amount of sleep that you need to be functional the next day. I’d have to say like 7 hours or more 🙂

Bonus (as in optional):Describe your most vivid dream. Most of my dreams are vivid or strange sad to say babe always asks me how I remember every detail…I’m not sure

1. Family is ___important to me_____________.
2. Friends are __like sisters to me____________.
3. Exes are good _for nothing______________.
4. Strangers __are strangers_________________.
5. Relationships ___are great_________ when __both people put in work_______.

Bonus: Tell us about your first love: He went to my church and we dated off and on until my freshmen year in college. He has since become like a brother to me and is expecting his first child next year and I’ve informed him I’m gonna be the unofficial godmother LOL


TMI Tuesday

It was brought to my attention that I dont do TMI tuesday anymore and since I am a slacker I decided to do one even though its Wednesday LOL

So here goes……….

1. What is the longest you have been in a monogamous sexual relationship? [For the purpose of this question monogamous is defined as no sexual partners that your significant other does (did) not know about.] I would have to say almost 2 years then we broke up lol

2. If your current relationship would fail, do you have a back-up for physical or emotional comfort? I have friends I mean I dont know if you consider them backups or not but I’m sure I could find one if necessary but this one would be hard to get over

3. Can you be “just friends” with someone when there is an unrequited sexual attraction? Someone told me that they still find me attractive and I said do you say that to your wife LOL so that would mean no if you constantly trying to holla at me then I prob couldn’t be around you

4. In a assumed monogamous sexual relationship have you ever cheated, been cheated upon or been a knowing third party to the infidelity? [For the purpose of this question monogamous is defined as no sexual partners that a significant other does (did) not know about.] I have been cheated upon and sad to say I wish I had done some dirt LOL but i’m too good for that

5. Historically, what has caused the most arguments in your relationships? Me feeling like the guy didn’t like me as much as I liked him but I’m glad to say that’s all changed 🙂

Bonus (as in optional):What do you want from a partner in a long term relationship? Communication and Understanding

1. How do you differentiate between love and lust? Lust passes as soon as someone who looks better or seems better comes along which would mean I think Love is the opposite

2. You are happily married, engaged, or committed in a relationship, yet you have a hot sexy dream about someone you have always wanted to do it with. Have you cheated at least in your mind? Heck yea Shemar Moore and Will Smith could have got it last night LOL

3. Do you trust your significant other? It took a LONG time but yes I do 🙂

4. How important is your Husband or Wife wearing their Wedding bands? Is it important to you and why? Very important its a symbol to the world that we are committed to one another and the life we want to establish

5. Do you feel that flirting is OK if you are taken? I mean light flirting yes but not all out rubbing up and down on someone lol

Bonus (as in optional):If you were 100% guaranteed not to get caught having a one night stand with someone else, would you? If it were denzel yes then again I’d prob tell babe LOL and be like it means nothing I just wanna see how it is LOL (but he’s prob too old now so i’d have to replace him with Will smith lol)