Are you crazy…

I’m at work and I just finished crying. My lil sis got married to some random dude who knew nothing about her insane mind and I can’t understand how and why she did it. As much as you want to be loved and taken care of marriage is NOT the answer.

This fool didn’t think anything of my sister calling him 40 times in one night so clearly he is riding the short yellow bus as well. To the point where my mom was telling him about my sister and all he could do was shake his head saying that he had messed up…ya think. Then this chic proceeds to tell him that she is willing to sign my nephews away to my parents and go off and be with him. That being said what if they have a kid together what makes him think she’s gonna take care of that one.

This girl can’t even keep her room clean how is she gonna keep a house clean. How is she gonna take care of the both of them. He lives with his uncle and make less than $200 a month…WOW is all I can say. She wanted to get married to ANYONE so bad that she found the first fool that she could wear down. I feel so bad for my parents…they are tired and getting older and dont need any of this. I just dont see how she can think that marriage is a game…it’s sooo NOT.

She hasn’t called me yet and she prob wont until I go home. This chic didn’t even get a wedding ring, not even a piece of string she just went and did it. Without telling anyone cause she knew that she was wrong..the poor boy didnt even know what an annulment was….and then to get married in what she got married in (a scarf on your head and a peaseant skirt) is horrible at least put something on that makes it look like you’re not homeless.

I just pray that he goes and gets an annulment and she learns that being with a man should add to you not make you.

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He’s Bacccckkk

Have you ever parted ways with someone and then they come back around and you wonder why?

Well navy dude is back…that’s what I use to call him on my old blog. I met him while I was in college and feel in deep like with his ponytail and his lips lol it blossomed into something deeper and he stuck to my heart for two years..he went on to join the military and something changed.

We were together one minute not together the next but I still remained his friend. I emailed him, checked on him and even sent a care package or two. At one point and time we were together and talked about making this permanent when he came back from his latest tour until it all came crashing down and I found out that he was keeping company with a long lost friend of mine from elementary school. Although they only slept together once I couldnt deal with it and I let him go. It took me a while…along while my heart was crushed but I kept believing that love would find me and that I couldnt punish others for one person’s deeds.

Well fast forward to last year…I saw him while I was at work walking in the city during lunch. He’s gained weight, cut his hair and told me that I was still “looking good”. I shrugged him off told him how things were with me he told me he had a girl and I told him i was dating someone as well and we exchanged numbers since we always had good conversation and we kept it moving.

So recently we’ve kept in touch via FB nothing bad just hey how you doing how is work. He asked if he could call and talk to me cause he needed to vent. We chatted and the convo turned to recent relationships and how and why ours ended. I told him that he had been too depressing, and I couldn’t get over the fact that i was the only person “in” the relationship. He listened and agreeded that during that time in his life he was a very depressed person and he hated that he had done that to me. Talking to him made me realize how much I missed his convo and the laughter that came so easily with him. We chatted about how life is moving along and we’re getting older…which lead to the I wonder ifs and all that jazz

I love cakes and he’s a wonderful guy but I honestly can’t help but wonder why now….why pop back up at this moment when there have been things going on with cakes and me..is this a sign. I know the grass isnt always greener on the other side it just tends to be a lil newer and I def dont wanna find out the hard way that things never change.

I just can’t help but wonder………….

Am I back…

Maybe maybe not LOL. I’ve been terrible at updating but that’s because I keep updating FB with insane things that are going on with me and I forget about my blog until yesterday when I was called out…so I figured I would update again..not sure who is gonna read it maybe it will just give me peace of mind 🙂

So school is great…two more classes left then I will have my paralegal certificate. I’m taking the summer off since they aren’t offering both the classes during the summer but they are offering them in the fall which gives me time to come home and do NOTHING which is great. That drive out to VA every Thursday might seem easy but man was it tiring. Class usually ended at 845 but it seemed like it would last forever probably because I had class from 430-710 and then from 730-845.

I’ve decided to be my chapters secretary which is great. More responsibility more involvement more growth. I’m def scared about it and excited at the same time LOL

Losing weight is going ok so far 5pds down which would mean that if I keep going along this path I will be less than 10pds away from my goal by the end of the year which is great. I’ve been a slacker for the last week due to rain and being out of town but today I hit the gym again so lets hope I dont pass out 🙂

The siblings are good. The youngest now has 4 boys…yep FOUR. The baby’s name is Jabari and I had the honor of naming him woohooo which makes him even more special. Yea I know its about time she lay off but hey you can’t tell some folks anything they have to learn their own way. The middle sibling moved into her very own apt. Roommate issues were getting the best of her so she moved on out 🙂 I’m so proud of her, now she’s saving for a car. I’m contemplating moving in with my LS to save money but I had to make it clear to her how I am on certain things dont wanna move in and she be like umm no and then there will be problems. Cakes is use to coming and going (cakes is the boo) and I dont necessarily mind that but she might and if she does I’d rather stay where I’m at and just cut somethings out than move..having your own space is wonderful and moving in to save money would be great but I’ve def gotten use to somethings and thats pretty much it.

Work is good…just thankful to have a job in these times….

So I can’t promise that I will stop by and read everyone’s blogs that would take days LOL but I will def try to post more 🙂

Have a great day!!!